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10 Signs You're In A Controlling Relationship | How To Spot A Controlling Partner
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Marriage Repair Why Are You So Controlling?
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7 signs you're in a controlling relationship
For more - go to: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/yt 7 Signs You’re In A Controlling Relationship If there’s one kind of a relationship you want to get out of FAST it’s a controlling relationship. This is a relationship where the person in charge is a personality that can only handle a relationship that they can control. Control – if you aren’t familiar – is an illusion. The idea of control may sound cool, but it’s highly unlikely that you’re as “in control” as you might think. Take it from me – I used to be a bit of a control “monster” for a huge part of my adult life. I wasn’t out-of-control, but I know I alienated a few people here and there. And the funny thing was that I now know that the control I wanted was just a way of compensating for feeling so helpless as a kid. But the thing about “toxic” relationships is that they can be created out of thin air. What starts out as a perfectly normal relationship can also spiral out of control into a really horrible situation. You need to be on your guard to make sure that you don’t fall victim to a controlling relationship. Because a lot of the signs start small, and then only get bigger. And – in contrast to what you might expect – it’s not just men that are controllers in relationships. Women are found to use this behavior just as much as men do. So if you find any “controlling red flags here” just be aware that you might not fit this description, but you should see if you might have used the same tactics. Now, let’s take a look at some of the signs that you might be in a controlling relationship… Controlling Relationship – Sign 1: He’s watching – everything! It might show up as criticism, or it might be a weird kind of surveillance you feel on you all the time… You might feel like you’ve got cameras hidden everywhere and he’s watching you. It’s a weird feeling, but you know that he’s watching you a lot closer than he should. This is another of those insidious behaviors that can start out small: “Sweetie, do you mind not leaving your floss on the counter?” And before you know it, you’ve got a full blown tyrant on your hands: “I’d like you to keep the blu-ray discs in alphabetical order. And the cereal boxes in the pantry…” Or he starts the criticism of you, your friends, your family… or really anything in your life that he doesn’t like. He might even tell you that “I just want you to work on improving yourself” as an excuse for the constant nitpicking. Just recognize that it’s extremely hard to feel loved and accepted when there’s a constant dynamic of criticism and complaints coming your way. This is about as far as you can get from “unconditional love.” Controlling Relationship – Sign 2: It’s flattering, buuuuut…. One of the most outstanding indicators of a controlling personality is that they often wield their most potent weapon in your relationship: Jealousy. Jealousy feels cool every so often. I mean, who doesn’t like knowing that their partner is so into you that they get a little green with jealousy once in a while? It feels like caring and heartfelt love… Until it doesn’t. The key here is being jealous “ONCE” in a while. If it is regular, to the point where you start avoiding going out and socializing with him around because you’re afraid of the consequences, you may have a controller on your hands. This is particularly difficult because their jealousy can seem like YOU are the one hurting them – but it’s really their own insecurities. And it’s especially painful when their accusations make it seem like you’re doing this on purpose to hurt them. Controlling Relationship – Sign 3: Guilty! In a controlling personality’s mind – you are always guilty until you prove ... For the rest - WATCH THE VIDEO! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== 7 signs you're in a controlling relationship https://youtu.be/3z48GmT-Oww
Views: 4090 Carlos Cavallo
Dealing With Relationship Insecurity | 10 Tips To Handle Insecurity
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Relationship Advice : How to Stop Being Controlling
A controlling person can become a problem when a significant other has an issue with it, but they can get over it by letting things go and letting nature take its course. Stop being controlling in a relationship by practicing letting things go at mid-range with tips from the author of several dating books in this free video on relationship advice. Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has been a nationwide talk show host on Sun Radio Network and IRN.com, and he has a Ph.D. in behavioral psychology. Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
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15 Signs Your Partner Is Controlling
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Stay in - or Leave - a Relationship?
Should you stay or leave a relationship? Here’s a checklist of questions to ask oneself before heading out too quickly - or too slowly. If you like our films take a look at our shop (we ship worldwide): http://www.theschooloflife.com/shop/most-popular-1/?utm_source=You%20Tube&utm_medium=Video%20description&utm_campaign=YT%20video%20description%20most%20popular Brought to you by http://www.theschooloflife.com Produced in collaboration with Andrew Foerster & Joren Cull http://www.rewfoe.com/ Illustration by Joren Cull http://jorenmania.com/ #TheSchoolOfLife
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The Controlling Boyfriend (School Project)
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My Boyfriend Is A Control Freak And He's Way Out Of Line
★ Subscribe ACTUALLY HAPPENED https://bit.ly/2J5HP7j This is Gina. Do you think it’s possible for a person to love you TOO MUCH? Well, this is EXACTLY what happened to her! She first saw Brad at school, and he was such a handsome boy with the prettiest smile she had ever seen. Every day, she would sit there hoping he would notice her, and then finally, it happened! He came over to her and asked if she was free that evening, and it was the happiest moment of her life. They went to the movies, and then for a walk in a park, and it was super romantic. Not long afterwards, they started to date, and the first few weeks were perfect – they saw each other every day, and he always told her how beautiful she was, and when they weren’t together he texted her all the time, telling her how much he loved and missed her. It was so sweet. But sometimes Gina was busy with school or seeing her friends, and during that time he would text her non-stop. One day she was doing her homework, and when she finished, she looked at her phone, and there were HUNDREDS of texts and missed calls. The first ones were like, “I love you” “I miss you,” but then it turned into things like “are you alright?” “where are you?” “why don’t you answer me?” She called Brad and said, “I’m sorry for not answering, I was busy with my homework.” He said “okay, but call me next time because I was worried.” It was quite sweet the first time, but then it happened again, and again. Each time when she wasn’t able to answer him right away, even if it was during a lesson, he started to panic. One time he even knocked on a classroom door and asked the teacher if she could come out. It was sooo embarrassing! Brad always wanted to be with Gina – like, ALL the time. He was visibly upset if she decided to spend some time with her friends instead of him. Honestly, it was kind of a turn off at this point; it’s hard to like a boy who doesn't give you any space. She told her friends about it, and they thought she was selfish because he clearly just loved her so much. Of course, they didn’t. They only got worse. He would wait for Gina to come out of class after each lesson and insisted on them always being together. At this point, even her friends realized that something was wrong. When she told him that she wanted to spend some time apart from him, he got mad and said “you don’t love me anymore!” She had to prove him wrong, so the only time she could be without him was when she was at home, and even then he still texted her constantly. The last straw for Gina was when she was talking to a boy named Johnny, a classmate, about the project they were doing together for school, and Brad came up to them, looked Johnny right in the eyes and said to him, “stop talking to her, she’s mine!” She tried to explain to Brad that he should calm down, that Johnny was just a classmate, but he wouldn’t listen and was trying to act all manly and “protect” her. Johnny got up and left, muttering “weirdo.” Gina was so embarrassed, and she said to Brad, “this is not okay, you behave like a stalker, can you please just stop!?” But he just answered: “I do it because I love you!” She didn’t know why Brad acted the way he did, but she no longer saw him as this cool, confident boy she had thought she knew before – her feelings towards him had changed. So later that day she said that she didn’t want to date him anymore. He begged her to reconsider and said he was sorry like a hundred times, and when she said “no” he got angry and implied that she liked Johnny, and that was why she was dumping him. Ugh! He texted her every day for two weeks, saying how much he missed her, and she explained over and over to him that she didn’t want to date anymore. For a few days he was silent, and she thought he must have moved on, but then… He called her and said “can you please look out your window?” She did, and saw a bunch of lit candles spelling out “I love you”. It was so awkward! She went outside and tried to explain him that he was a great guy, but she didn’t like this insane level of control. He was so upset, like he was holding back tears, and she felt so sorry for him. He said that she was his first girlfriend and he felt scared of losing her, and that’s why he acted the way he did, and he didn’t see what was happening until his older brother pointed it out to him. He asked if they could start again and promised that it would be better this time. Gina wanted to say “yes”, but she couldn’t, so she politely declined. And she felt so bad about it, like she was a bad person for refusing, but something inside of her said that all of it would just happen again. Gina thinks that a person shouldn’t be in a relationship if he or she is not comfortable in it, even if you feel sorry for someone. Brad is not a bad person, but he should have dealt with his insecurities before starting a relationship. Music by Epidemic Sound: https://www.epidemicsound.com
How to Deal with Relationships? | Sadhguru
Sadhguru looks at how human relationships are not absolute, and are always variable, and need a lot of attention. He explains that the need for a relationship is arising because though every individual is a complete life, people are under the illusion that they are half a life that cannot be without another. **************************************** Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/the-nature-of-human-relationships/ Sadhguru: But he must be punished? (Laughter) Either by you or somebody he must be punished. (Laughter and Applause) What kind of punishment do you normally give to people? (Laughter) Already enough of punishment has been given, isn’t it? Already it’s been given – the ugliness, the nastiness, the silent treatment everything has happened, so what more punishment you want to give? Your thing is, there is no remorse on other side. There is no remorse on the other side because people are doing what they want to do, not what you want them to do, always. And that may not be in your interest, but they are doing what they want to do. Is it right, wrong – I am not going into the morality of it. I want you to understand the mechanics of the situation. Somebody is doing what they want to do; now you think they must be punished, probably they have not broken any law, otherwise they would be anyway punished. They’re breaking an understanding between two people; probably you misunderstood the understanding. You believed that these understandings are absolute; they are not. Nowhere in the history of humanity or today or in anytime in future, will human relationships be absolute, though every… every person who gets little romantic, believes that this is going to be an absolute relationship, there is no such thing about it. A relationship is a variable, always; you have to conduct it on a daily basis. One day if you don’t conduct it properly it may go somewhere. Yes or no? No, please look at it as it is. You have to conduct it right, so ‘No I am doing my best,’ – obviously somebody feels your best is not good enough for them. I want you to come to terms with this. Read Full Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/the-nature-of-human-relationships/ **************************************** More Videos & Blogs on Website http://www.isha.sadhguru.org Yogi, mystic and visionary, Sadhguru is a spiritual master with a difference. An arresting blend of profundity and pragmatism, his life and work serves as a reminder that yoga is a contemporary science, vitally relevant to our times. Subscribe to our channel here: http://isha.co/2ebiGKm Free Guided Meditation by Sadhguru at http://www.ishafoundation.org/Ishakriya Free Yoga Tools For Transformation at http://isha.sadhguru.org/5-min-practices/ Official Facebook Page of Sadhguru https://www.facebook.com/sadhguru Official Twitter Profile of Sadhguru https://twitter.com/SadhguruJV Download Sadhguru App 📲 http://onelink.to/sadhguru__app
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Girlfriend's 'Controlling' List of 22 Rules for her Boyfriend! (SHE IS CRAZY)
A list with 22 Rules was found, these are the rules. Hope you enjoy the video! BECOME A CHASER: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsbh... ^^^ CLICK HERE ^^^ SOCIAL MEDIA: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itssherbert... - Twitter: https://twitter.com/ChasingChris4 For Business Inquiries: chasingchris4@gmail.com
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Are you controlling and jealous in your relationship with your wife?
This time we have a question from Emy about jealousy and control in relationships, asking if I was jealous and controlling in my relationship with my wife. "Hi Shredy. I wish you happiness and success. Marriage was a very trumatic experience for me. We have a severe social pressure on women. This pain makes me much stronger and more independent.could i ask you Shredy, are you controlling and jealous husband in your relationship with your wife? Like what happens in our society. Being conditioned to a habit is not easy to change." Shredy Jabarin Website: http://www.shredyjabarin.com Twitter: https://twitter.com/shredyjabarin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shredy_jabarin Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shredyjjabarin
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How to be less controlling in your relationship
http://crazygirlnation.com Sometimes in relationships, we feel the overwhelming need to control every little thing about the relationship. How can you be happy in your relationship without driving yourself and your boyfriend crazy? In this video, you'll learn why we need the feel to control as well as three steps for letting go of a controlling nature. Lovin' my advice? Subscribe to my mailing list and be the first to know about new posts, videos, and to get notified when my book "Be Your Own Boyfriend" comes out. http://crazygirlnation.com Find me on Twitter: http://twitter.com/kaneishad
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How do you stop nagging, criticism and controlling behavior?
http://twoology.com/how-do-you-stop-nagging-criticism-and-controlling-behavior In this Twoology video, relationship expert, Holli Kenley, LMFT shares how you can stop being such a control freak who is incessantly nagging, controllling and critical. You have good intentions about doing the right things for your relationship, but sometimes one or both of you might not know what to do, or where to go. You're not alone... Since relationships come with questions and expectations, Twoology answers! You can trust your relationship to http://Twoology.com because we have the one place for the two of you: the world's largest library of relationship experts and resources powered by amazing relationship tools to help you put great advice to good use. Your relationship is too valuable to waste. See for yourself what's available for you right now at: http://Twoology.com
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30 Signs You Have a Controlling Girlfriend
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How To Recognize Covert Controlling Bullies In Relationships | Stop Abusive Bullies in Relationships
Call 1-877-8BULLIEs | How To Recognize Covert Controlling Bullies In Relationships | Stop Abusive Bullies in Relationships Dr. Leichtling discusses how to recognize and stop sneaky covert bullies and control freaks in relationships. Overt bullies are easy to recognize, since their behavior and tactics are in the open for everybody to see. Covert bullies are harder to see, and sometimes people fail to recognize their behavior for what it is: bullying. Dr. Ben discusses seven warning signs of bullying covert controllers and he stresses the importance of protecting your own space and defending yourself against these subtle manipulators. Call 1-877-8BULLIEs to discuss your personal situation and start planning a strategy that will help you cope with the bullies in your life. You can find more information at the following links: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLJpC-0Zx-c http://www.bulliesbegoneblog.com/2012/11/01/stop-narcissistic-bullies-and-control-freaks-in-relationships/ http://bulliesbegone.com/bullies_at_home.html Here is a related video that discusses how to deal with bullying husbands: http://youtu.be/CZuR59ZGMfM Remember, bullying is the bully's fault, not yours. Read this blog post: http://bulliesbegone.com/blog/2014/2/9/bullying-is-the-bullys-fault Link to this video: http://youtu.be/VcLC0atk2Ts
Views: 135528 Ben Leichtling
Signs of a Controlling Relationship
Totally loved my guests on The Love Nest today. They were definitely real women who know what's up! Controlling relationships are out there and they can be very dangerous. Pay attention to the signs and how you are feeling. Also, we dip into compromise in relationships with the positive and the negative, and how it can help you and how you can use it against them. ;) Please like, share, and subscribe. Don't forget to check out these hot mamas' channels and leave them some love! XO Check out Ilana's Channel!: http://www.youtube.com/user/thefunclub Check out Angel's Channel!: http://www.youtube.com/user/thepregnantangel Get Carlie's Fitness Tops!!: "Love Who You Are" Tank at Rodeo Arcade: http://www.rodeoarcade.com/collections/carlie-stylez/products/carliestylez-love-who-you-are-tank "Love Who You Are" Tee at Rodeo Arcade: http://www.rodeoarcade.com/collections/carlie-stylez/products/carlie-stylez-love-who-you-are-tee *LIMITED EDITION: This design will be available for 4 weeks only. Follow me! fbook: https://www.facebook.com/pages/CarlieStylez/194566460614704 and twitter: https://twitter.com/CarlieStylezz SUBSCRIBE to THEMOMSVIEW http://www.youtube.com/themomsview SUBSCRIBE to THEMOMSVIEWTOO http://www.youtube.com/themomsviewtoo SUBSCRIBE to KATILETTE http://www.youtube.com/katilette SUBSCRIBE to HEYKAYLI http://www.youtube.com/heykayli SUBSCRIBE to MIYA http://www.youtube.com/user/MIYA SUBSCRIBE TO BELLAMISHELLA http://www.youtube.com/bellamishella Royalty Free Music by http://audiomicro.com/royalty-free-music Sound Effects by http://audiomicro.com/sound-effects
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Tony Robbins - Relationship Advice For Women - How To Have The Perfect Relationship
❤Subscribe Now And Press the Bell Icon to never miss another update❤ ====================================================== GET Tony Robbins New Book - Unshakeable on Amazon now - http://amzn.to/2ocuDUb Tony Robbins - Relationship Advice For Women - How To Have The Perfect Relationship (Tony Robbins Motivation) Thanks for watching this motivational video! I hope it inspires and motivates you to move forward to achieve more with your life. If you liked this video and want to see more don't hesitate to subscribe to my channel! If you have any questions comment on the video and if you want to share to inspire someone close give this video a share! Speaker: Tony Robbins Tony Robbins has dedicated his life to helping people discover and put into action the tools, strategies, and resources that create extraordinary results and amazing levels of personal fulfillment. Over the last three decades, he has directly impacted the lives of more than 50 million people from 100 nations with his work in leadership psychology, negotiation, organizational turnaround and peak performance. The creator of the #1 personal and professional development system of all time, Robbins has been honoured by -- Accenture as one of the “Top 50 Business Intellectuals in the World,” -- American Express as one of the top six business leaders in the world to coach its entrepreneurial clients -- the International Chamber of Commerce as one of the “Top 10 Outstanding People of the World.” He has addressed such distinguished audiences as the World Economic Forum, the British Parliament and Harvard Business School. By uncovering the emotional triggers that influence both you and others, Tony Robbins will provide you with the tools to shape your decisions and create your ultimate destiny. Source : Tony Robbins Facebook Page Check out more of our Motivational Videos: Tony Robbins - How To Believe In Yourself https://youtu.be/SQjlcp3tr9c Jim Rohn - How To Set Goals And Keep Them https://youtu.be/qJeVzqwsdDk Tony Robbins - Essential Relationship Advice https://youtu.be/repp0Cv5GXA Here are my top 5 motivational speeches (Based on personal opinion) 1. "Empathy is a choice, and it's a vulnerable choice. Because in order to connect with you, I have to connect with something in myself that knows that feeling" - Brené Brown 2. "Either we heal as a team or we’re gonna crumble, inch by inch, play by play, till we’re finished. We’re in hell right now, gentlemen, believe me. And we can stay here and get the $&#@ kicked out of us, or we can fight our way back into the light. We can climb out of hell, one inch at a time." - Al Pacino 3. "Don't ever let somebody tell you ... you can't do something. Not even me. All right? You got a dream. You gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they want to tell you can't do it. If you want something, go get it. Period." - Will Smith 4. "I think that allowing somebody, one mere person to believe that he or she is like, the vessel, you know, like the font and the essence and the source of all divine, creative, unknowable, eternal mystery is just a smidge too much responsibility to put on one fragile, human psyche. It's like asking somebody to swallow the sun. It just completely warps and distorts egos, and it creates all these unmanageable expectations about performance. And I think the pressure of that has been killing off our artists for the last 500 years." - Elizabeth Gilbert 5. "You cannot let a fear of failure or a fear of comparison or a fear of judgment stop you from doing the things that will make you great. You cannot succeed without the risk of failure. You cannot have a voice without the risk of criticism. You cannot love without the risk of loss. You must take these risks." - Charlie Day Use these hashtags to find more of our motivational videos: 1. #TonyRobbinsMotivation 2. #JimRohnMotivation 3. #Lawofattraction 4. #Actionbeginssuccess 5. #BusinessMotivation 6. #SelfHelp FAIR-USE COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER * Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, commenting, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. 1)This video has no negative impact on the original works (It would actually be positive for them) 2)This video is also for teaching purposes. 3)It is not transformative in nature. 4)I only used bits and pieces of videos to get the point across where necessary. Action Begins Success does not own the rights to these video clips. They have, in accordance with fair use, been repurposed with the intent of educating and inspiring others. However, if any content owners would like their images removed, please contact me by email through my about section on YouTube.
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Sick of walking on eggshells in a controlling relationship?
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How Controlling Should You Be When In A Relationship....... @hodgetwins
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What is Emotional Abuse? SIGNS you are in an emotionally abusive relationship
Don't forget to SUBSCRIBE!! #healsurvivethrive #selflove #StephanieLynCoaching Facebook: stephanielynlifecoaching Instagram: @stephanielyncoaching Twitter: @slynlifecoach Private Coaching - info@stephanielynlifecoaching.com How to Say NO without Feeling Guilty! https://youtu.be/S9mdu0oODV0 3 Daily Self-Love practices - Motivation https://youtu.be/EmPq37fFz-4 How to Tell the Difference between a Narcissist vs Sociopath https://youtu.be/EmPq37fFz-4 Is your partner CHEATING? | Emotional Affairs https://youtu.be/4pwo5FQ4WQg How to Teach Kids about ABUSE https://youtu.be/0xdQVfTwUmE
Views: 580617 Stephanie Lyn Coaching
How To Spot A Controlling Guy – Top 10 Warning Signs Of A Controlling Guy | Male Personality Types
How To Spot A Controlling Guy – Top 10 Warning Signs Of A Controlling Guy. These 10 Male Dating Personalities That Lead To Heartbreak – www.bit.ly/MHYPersonalities Do you ever think to yourself, "How to spot a controlling guy?” “What are the top early warning signs of a controlling guy?” “How to tell if a guy is controlling?” Join the facebook group! https://www.facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/ A dating advice question I get asked a lot by women is "how to spot a controlling guy?” and “How to handle a controlling guy?” and “what are the signs of a controlling guy?” Giving relationship advice to women on how to handle a controlling guy is one of the MOST important jobs I have as a dating and relationships coach. When a woman comes to me saying she is consistently meets the wrong type of guy – the controlling guy - it mean she is currently experiencing a pattern that can lead her to a life of pain, anger and despair in her intimate relationships. If this is happening on a consistent basis, this woman is in the habit of attracting a type of man - a male dating type - who leads to heartbreak… An example of a male dating type that leads to heartbreak is the controlling guy or ‘controller’. The controlling guy is a toxic, insecure man that wants to control your actions and movements so he can protect himself from his own insecurities. You spend your time with a controlling partner thinking “what if I do the wrong thing?” and “will he be OK if I do this?” as opposed to living a relationship based on growth and freedom. This is such a toxic male dating personality that you MUST know how to spot a controlling guy early. When a woman comes to me saying "Mark, how to spot a controlling guy?” or “what are the early warning signs of a controlling guy?” my first thought is "IMPORTANT Question. It shows this woman is consciously about what she wants to attract and if she’s asking the question, it probably means she’s had a pattern of dating controlling men or partners in the past. If you’ve had a pattern of attracting one of the worst types of male dating personalities – the controlling/possessive guy – then this is a pattern you MUST break if your dating and intimate relationships with men are ever going to be fulfilling for you in the future. Knowing how avoid controlling men and meet the right guy for you is hugely important if you’ve had a pattern of attracting controlling guys in the past or think you might be in a relationship with a controller now. In this dating advice video from Make Him Yours, I (Mark Rosenfeld, dating and relationships coach) am discussing how to handle a controlling guy, how to spot a controlling guy and what the early warnings signs are of a controlling guy. Even if you’ve never attracted a controlling guy before, this is a hugely important video to your dating and relationship happiness in the future and you NEVER want to find yourself stuck in a relationship with a controlling, possessive man. If you've experienced dating a controlling guy who wants to make himself feel secure at the expense of your freedom, or if you want to ensure you never attract such a man in the future, then then this is the video for you. In it, I speak at length about how to spot a controlling guy and the early warning signs of a controlling man. This dating and relationships advice video is my comprehensive guide to avoiding the controlling guy – A male dating type that leads to heartbreak. In it, I describe the controlling man – the toxic male dating personality who wants to control and inhibit you to make himself feel secure. I give you the top 10 early warning signs of a controlling guy so you don’t have to deal with this man in the future! Don’t forget to download the guide! The 10 Male Dating Personalities That Lead To Heartbreak – www.bit.ly/MHYPersonalities **Click below to SUBSCRIBE to my channel for more videos: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCj43... Join the conversation on Facebook: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/howtomakehim... Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/makehimyours/ Snapchat: MarkRosenfeld -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "How To Have WAY More Fun On Dates & Stop Wasting Time On Dating" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kAQNK7oMz0k -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
Views: 37384 Mark Rosenfeld
10 Signs You're Being Manipulated
Do you wonder about the meaning and definition of manipulation, because you feel as though someone is using psychological manipulation techniques on you? 10 signs of manipulation include when someone constantly makes you prove yourself or they communicate passive-aggressively. Manipulators often use gaslighting techniques, and are "always joking". Also, manipulators play the victim card, or kill you with sporadic kindness, followed by moments when they make you feel small. Manipulators emphasize their calm, cool, and collected side, use emotional blackmail, and take advantage of your trusting and sensitive nature. References: How to Recognize the 8 Signs of Emotional Manipulation. (2018). Live Bold & Bloom. Retrieved May 31, 2018. Newsome, T. (2016, May 24). 11 Signs You're Being Manipulated in a Relationship & How to Fix It. Bustle. Retrieved May 31, 2018. Ways To Support Us: https://www.patreon.com/Psych2GoNow Buy from our shop here: https://www.introvertpalace.com/ Use the discount code: psych2go to get 10% off anything in the shop. Project Manager: Wendy Hu Community Manager: Priscilla Cha, Nicole Pridemore Producer: Psych2Go Writer: Catherine Huang Voice Over: Lily Hu Animator: Krystal Website: http://psych2go.net Twitter: http://twitter.com/psych2go Facebook: http://facebook.com/psych2go Tumblr: http://psych2go.me Patreon: http://patreon.com/psych2gonow Contact + editorial@psych2go.net
Views: 567052 Psych2Go
My Abusive Controlling Relationship
This video may be triggering to anyone who has been through an abusive relationship. If you would like professional guidance with these issues, check out BetterHelp. --▸ Get Convenient and Affordable Therapy http://9nl.es/Shelbi4BetterHelp Hi world! This will begin a new series on my channel outlining a significant part of my life which playing a huge role in shaping who I am today. I feel that I have a base of people on my channel who are interested in my life and I know there are millions of young girls, and boys, on YouTube who can learn from my abusive relationship experience. This video does not get to the large issues but as the series goes on we will get there. Thank you so much for giving me a community where I feel comfortable to do this. If you're reading this leave a comment in the section below letting me know what you think about these types of videos. I'd love to talk to all of you. If you have any questions or suggestions for future videos I would love to hear them. Find me on other social media: Twitter: Shelbizleee (https://twitter.com/Shelbizleee) Instagram: Shelbizleee (https://twitter.com/Shelbizleee) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Shelbizleee/ For business inquiries or personal communication: shelbizleee@gmail.com
Views: 8361 Shelbizleee
Feeling Insecure? This Video Will Change Everything (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)
►► Learn how to shatter your insecurities and create your dream life... Go here → http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com ▼ Don’t Miss Out! Subscribe to my YouTube channel now. I post new dating advice for women every Sunday. ▼ So you know I love to let you peek behind the curtain and see footage from my live retreats. And I couldn’t resist sharing this woman’s incredibly powerful story with you today. She faced one of the most difficult biggest setbacks I could ever imagine in her love life, and came to me for advice on how to get a guy to like her as more than a friend. Maybe you struggle with your own insecurities (like I do). This video is going to give you the #1 practical mindset shift to shatter those pesky doubts within minutes…. Learn more here... http://www.MatthewHusseyRetreat.com ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → http://www.SayThisToHim.com ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/blog/ Facebook → https://facebook.com/CoachMatthewHussey Twitter → https://twitter.com/matthewhussey
Views: 1876468 Matthew Hussey
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Views: 114614 PiinkSparkles
Codependency: how to overcome it forever: the root cause revealed
The root cause of codependency will be revealed so you can heal the root and liberate yourself from every other symptom too for once and for all. This video is about how to recover from codependency, how to protect ourselves against narcissists, how to deal with manipulators, how to recover from a relationship with a narcissist, how to stop being emotionally abused, how to stop being physically abused, how to stop being dominated, how to stop being trapped in mind games, how to get over fear of abandonment, how to stop pleasing others, how to get over the fear of being left alone, hot wot stop being a peoples pleaser, how to stop being a victim without techniques.
Views: 223671 Alive Academy
My Boyfriend Is Controlling Me.
MERCH: https://fanjoy.co/collections/sarah-baska COLORING BOOK: http://amzn.to/2w5aMMD Thanks for watching my boyfriend control my entire day girlies. We had so much fun making this, it was quite the giggle fest. If any of you guys relate to getting controlled every single day, you're not alone. I am here beside you. I am embracing you. My clammy hands are holding yours. Love u all so much lmfao make sure you give this a big ol :) THUMBS UP ;) if you liked it and subscribe for new videos every sAaaAturday even tho its Sunday hehe FOLLOW WILL ON INSTAGRAM: nwaiv_ ALSO CHECK OUT HIS ART WEBSITE AND BUY SOMETHIN FUNKY: https://www.nwaiv.com MY SOCIAL MEDIA: twitter // sarahbaska Insta // sarahbaskaa snap // kindasarah spotify // Sarah Baska tumblr // sxbaska
Views: 481309 Sarah Baska
How To Master & Control Your Emotions
How To Control Your Emotions - A radically different way to understand your emotions and create emotional mastery. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books
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Woman Describes Relationship With Boyfriend She Calls A ‘Controlling Narcissist’
A woman claims the man she wants to marry controls every aspect of her life and wants to know if there’s a future for their relationship. http://drphil.com Subscribe to Dr. Phil: http://bitly.com/SubscribeDrPhil LIKE us on Facebook: http://bitly.com/DrPhilFacebook Follow us on Twitter: http://bitly.com/DrPhilTwitter Dr. Phil uses the power of television to tell compelling stories about real people. The Dr. Phil show provides the most comprehensive forum on mental health issues in the history of television. For over a decade, Dr. McGraw has used the show's platform to make psychology accessible and understandable to the general public by addressing important personal and social issues. Using his top-rated show as a teaching tool, he takes aim at the critical issues of our time, including the "silent epidemics" of bullying, drug abuse, domestic violence, depression, child abuse, suicide and various forms of severe mental illness.
Views: 151966 Dr. Phil
Are You Too Controlling In Your Relationship?
Controlling behavior can be detrimental to a relationship, here are some of the signs to look out for. https://www.thisisinsider.com/am-i-controlling-2018-11 http://www.wochit.com This video was produced by YT Wochit News using http://wochit.com
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How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend
Thank you for watching and hearing my story. Check my pinned comment in the comment section below for more information about me/my experience. Click "Show More" for some helpful links. All characters appearing in this work are fictitious. Any resemblance to real persons, living or dead, is purely coincidental. Names have been changed and do not represent actual people. ▶GET HELP! https://www.thehotline.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services, OVER 200 LANGUAGES https://www.loveisrespect.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/ - FREE chat only in Arizona, nationwide 24/7 call services https://www.betterhelp.com/ - NOT SPONSORED - online, personal counseling services ▶GET EDUCATED! https://www.joinonelove.org/ - LEARN MORE about abusive relationships https://www.loveisrespect.org/ - “RELATIONSHIPS 101” - LGBTQ+ inclusive https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/ - “IS THIS ABUSE?” - helpful guide “6 Types of Child Abuse” by Psych2Go: https://youtu.be/vRkKPMXXN8M “Abuse Story” by storybooth: https://youtu.be/SiKQDu2cNvU “Bad Boyfriend” by storybooth: https://youtu.be/_vFqzpENZO0 ▶GET OUT THERE AND HELP! http://stoprelationshipabuse.org/ https://www.joinonelove.org/take-action/ https://www.childhelp.org/donate/#step-one ▶I USE: - ToonBoom Harmony Premium - to animate - Blue Yeti microphone - to record - Premiere CC - to edit audio and video - Cintiq 16 Pro screen tablet - to draw (but I recommend basic cheap pen tablets from Wacom) ▶STAY CONNECTED: https://instagram.com/illymation https://twitter.com/illymation
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Top Three (3) Signs Of A ♥ Controlling ♥ Girlfriend
For more Mind Control attraction (and emotional enslavement!) techniques, click here for a free online Masterclass: http://FractionationHypnosis.com/ ▼▼▼ CONTINUE BY CLICKING “SHOW MORE” BELOW ▼▼▼ Hey! If you're having problems with your woman and you think that she's turning into a control freak, then you're at the right place. Look - if your relationship with your woman is getting crappy then let me assure you one thing... IT AIN'T YOUR FRIGGIN' FAULT! I'll show you why... You see, if she's becoming a little to controlling or dominant then guess what? It's now YOUR responsibility to rein her in. And you can do that using MIND CONTROL techniques which I am going to share with you in this short video. Before I share with you all those good stuff about exerting your dominance on her, click LIKE because you're an awesome guy, alright? In this video, you'll learn: 1. Top 3 signs of a controlling girlfriend (find out if you're getting pussywhipped!) - Sign #1: "W_____ S___" Sign #2: "F______" Sign #3: "Delaying R_______" 2. A killer technique on how to turn a dominant girlfriend into a compliant little Chihuahua Remember to watch the video up until the end so that you don't miss anything important out, alright? IT'S TIME TO FIGHT BACK, BUDDY When you're done with the video, remember to comment below and let me know what you think. :) For more Mind Control based seduction and Emotional Enslavement techniques, go to – http://FractionationHypnosis.com/ Good luck! Fredo "Girlfriend Controller" Hill PS: Click “LIKE”, ok? Thanks :) PPS: Subscribe to my channel for more goodies and the whole enchilada – click on this link – https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZrLBbZ0qBhEOou3lbK0msA?sub_confirmation=1 You rock!
Views: 8160 Fredo Hill
Controlling Relationships - Online CEUs
OnlineCEUcredit.com “Treating Abusive Controlling Relationships”, “Track 9 Successfully Using 2R’s, RET, and B-A-D questions” - CR Successfully Using 2R's, RET, and BAD Questions is an excerpt from the Online Continuing Education Course intended for Social Worker CEUs, Psychologist CEUs, Psychology CEUs, Counselor CEUs, MFT CEUs This powerpoint video is part of the continuing education course “Treating Abusive Controlling Relationships”, “Track 9 Successfully Using 2R’s, RET, and B-A-D questions” for psychologists, social workers, counselors, and MFTs. Many clients blame themselves for their situations. In controlling and abusive relationships, this self-blame often causes the abused individual to stay. In this track, we will discuss three techniques to reframe these beliefs: recognize and remember, RET, and BAD questions. The 2 R’s: Recognize and Remember Often client’s abusive relationships are made and perpetuated by an eroding self-image. By blaming the abused individual, the individual feels he/she is responsible for their abuse which in turn makes them feel they need to stay in the relationship. Rhonda, a 41-year-old mother of two and a schoolteacher, confessed that her husband of 20 years, Jeffrey, often made her feel like she was a bad wife and that she was incapable of doing anything on her own. The first tool for the abused individual, like Rhonda, is to reconstruct the reality of their self-blame based upon her story and discuss the meaning it holds for them. I have found that by pointing out the 2 R’s of recognize and remember, it helps the client develop a new narrative and introduces them to opportunities for making new choices for themselves. I asked Rhonda, "Have you ever thought about your relationship with Jeffrey from the point of view of who's in control? It sounds like Jeffrey constructs the story, or his version of reality was pretty much have accepted by you. Is that right?" After Rhonda remembered detailed circumstances this seemed to fit. RET: As a second technique, using Albert Ellis’ Rational-Emotive Therapy has been beneficial to reframe client’s beliefs. I encouraged Rhonda to distinguish between what is objective fact and what was her subjective interpretation of her behavior and Jeffrey’s. However, there is a triangular tightrope to walk in distinguishing objective fact from subjective interpretation: 1. Help the client become cognizant that by justifying and tolerating the abuser’s behavior they perpetuate the problem. 2. Steer the client away from self-blame. 3. Steer the client away from externalizing the problem and making the abuser the scapegoat. These techniques are part of continuing education intended for psychologists, counselors, MFTS, and social workers. B-A-D Questions: A third technique I find helpful in reframing the beliefs of abused clients is using BAD Questions. Through the course of several sessions, I ask my clients the following three questons. 1. B represents bear. I ask my client, “Do you think that you can bear this type of treatment for the rest of your life?” 2. A represents acceptable. I then ask my client, “Your partner is not behaving in the way he should toward you. Is that acceptable to you?” 3. D represents deserve. I finally ask my client, “You mentioned there have been good times between you and your partner, but that’s not what I am hearing from you now. You sound unhappy. DO you think you deserve to be happy?” Notice that I phrase the questions so the focus is on the client’s responses and choices rather than the behavior of their partner. When I asked these questions to Rhonda, through reflection she began to realize she was spending more time anticipating Jeffrey’s needs than she wanted to. Rhonda began establishing boundaries regarding Jeffrey’s outbursts and insisted that Jeffrey get help. Rhonda explained to me “I feel the cure for my horrible feeling of powerlessness is to be aware of my power in my relationship with Jeffrey.” The three techniques that clients dealing with controlling relationships can use to reframe their beliefs are the 2R’s, RET, and BAD questions. The preceding video is an excerpt from the continuing education course “Treating Abusive Controlling Relationships”, “Section 9 Controlling Relationships… Successfully Using 2R’s, RET, and B-A-D questions” and is written for counselors, social workers, psychologists, and MFTs who must meet CEU requirements for licensure renewal.
Views: 444 OnlineCEUCredit
She's Controlling Me - MGTOW
Women have an obsession with telling us men how to think, feel, behave, dress and spend our resources. Not only do many women expect men to shower them with resources for simply existing but they also expect men in general to change every single aspect of our behavior to accommodate them. It's not simply about our outward appearance and how we present ourselves to the world. Instead every woman I've ever met has expected me to change the way I perceive universe and my place in the world and to conform to her view of reality. Women expect me to see all women as beings that can do no wrong and try to condition me to see other men as animals. If this were really the case and self evident then women wouldn't need to spend all their time trying to turn men against each other. Women condition men to turn against each other while white knighting them. In the past when I was in relationships I wasn't allowed to behave in any ways that were outwardly bizarre or eccentric because it might lower her status, the woman that I was with, in the eyes of her family and friends. So that's why I find women will act like kindergarten teachers trying to keep man from doing anything embarrassing. And it's not enough for women to simply get us to behave. They have to make sure that our core value system changes to favor them and that we align ourselves to what society excepts as socially acceptable. Yet at the same time women don't appear to have to live up to these same expectations they place on men. Women promote the idea that men should be good and virtuous and follow the rules while they themselves break the rules all the time. When I was in art school I was taught that you can't break the rules until you learn them. And that's exactly what women do. They learn all the rules about how men and women should communicate with each other so they can break those rules. But at the same time they understand that breaking the rules will give them zero advantages unless other people believe and follow the rules. So that's why they spend so much of their time getting men to behave. Because a well behaved man that's loyal and hangs off of a woman's every word is not usually up to anything treacherous. If women had a motto and had to put it on a T-Shirt I believe it would say: "We are women so Leave the treachery to us." That's another reason women don't like men going their own way. Because we expose women's treacherous nature and debunk the lie they have been beating into men's heads for all of history. Women are excellent at filtering for the status quo, finding the group consensus and then pushing it onto others.
Views: 41163 Sandman
My First Boyfriend Took Advantage Of Me
★ Subscribe My Channel: https://bit.ly/2J5HP7j Helen was studying at school when all of her female friends suddenly started finding boyfriends – either the same age or a bit older. Helen looked on them with envy – she wasn’t the prettiest girl, but she was ready for her first romance story as well. She was the only single girl left among her friends, and needless to say she felt really awkward when they went out and they all brought their dates with them. But one day, Helen’s prayers were heard. She went to the mall alone, and while she was hanging around a guy came up to her to ask for her number. They chatted for a while; he was quite attractive and seemed to be a fairly interesting person to talk to. When she arrived home, he sent her a message, and they started chatting. They talked and talked for nearly the whole night through, and by 9 am when the time came to go to school, Helen realised that she was head over heels in love. When she finally saw him again, Helen felt her heart beat faster, and it became hard to breathe. Her love’s name was Joe, and he was 19. For Alice, it was pretty thrilling that he was so much older than she was, and yet his attention had fallen on her – and her alone. While they were drinking their coffee, Helen couldn’t take her eyes off him, while he seemed very interested in her life, asking lots of questions. At the end of their date he gave her a slight kiss. Gosh, Helen was now simply the happiest girl in the universe! She took a selfie with him so that she had material proof it wasn’t a dream. The next day, Helen simply couldn’t keep these developments to herself. She went to school and revealed everything to her friends, showing them the selfie. They smiled in disbelief and asked if she was certain Joe wasn’t too old for her. She snorted – female envy is just so pathetic. Meanwhile, he kept texting her all the time. When she was in her classes and couldn’t respond straight away, he wrote her angry messages if she took too long. Oh, that’s so cute, she thought, he cares so much! When she arrived home, Helen boasted to her mom that she had found a boyfriend, and told her about him. Her mother frowned, looked at the selfie and frowned even more. “I disapprove”, she said, “he’s too old for you, and you’re going to have problems with him.” Helen ignored her, and her mom didn’t press the issue – she had always given her plenty of freedom. And so Helen’s romance began without anyone’s approval, but that was just fine by her – because she had a new boyfriend called Joe who was genuinely interested in her. He kept messaging her and they met nearly every day. Unfortunately however, he refused to meet her friends, and told her that he didn’t want Helen to meet his. She agreed, because she thought that keeping their relationship half-secret was oh so romantic. Sometimes, he got a bit pushy with her. Apart from the fact that she was supposed to respond to his messages at once, he always forced Helen to meet him anytime he wanted – even if it wasn’t convenient for her. It happened pretty often, and she was starting to get a bit nervous about it. And she also didn’t like the way that sometimes when he gave her a lift home in the evening, he would get a little handsy. But she was so in love with him that she accepted it, even though didn’t feel comfortable about it. But one day her eyes were opened. They were supposed to meet at 6 pm near the mall, but Helen arrived a little early. She saw Joe chatting happily with some other guys. She felt glad that he would have to finally introduce them to her and she would become his official girlfriend. As she walked over to them, Joe still hadn’t noticed her, and then she heard what he was saying. “You know, I got that 15-year-old idiot who is madly in love with me and she’s sure I’m her soulmate! She’s ready to do anything I want! You know what I mean?” – and they were all roaring with laughter. Helen froze. It was as if someone had punched her hard in the stomach. Her first thought was to leave, but then frustration and anger boiled up in her. She walked towards them and, facing Joe, told him he was a pathetic moron. She said: “You think you’re cool for taking advantage of a nice shy girl? At least I’ve been sincere all the time! And now look at how cool you are with a 15-year-old idiot shouting at you in front of everyone!” and with that, she left with her dignity intact. The last thing she saw was Joe’s face full of embarrassment and the amused expressions of his friends. Helen hoped he would remember that moment for a very long time. Helen came home in tears and ran straight to her mom for support. She was a wise woman and told her she’d get over it, but also said she hoped Helen would learn her lesson. And indeed she did, and it proved to be a useful one for all the relationships that would come after. From that moment on, she was more attentive to what her partner really represented, and what her friends and family thought about him.
How I Left My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend
▶Click SHOW MORE for helpful links. IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION ABOUT MY STORY, see my pinned comment in the comment section. ▶Calvin’s art: http://calvinliart.com I USE: ▶ ToonBoom Harmony Premium - to animate ▶ Adobe Photoshop CC - backgrounds and thumbnail ▶ Cintiq 16 Pro - screen tablet (but I recommend basic cheap pen tablets from Wacom) STAY CONNECTED: ▶ https://instagram.com/illymation ▶ https://twitter.com/illymation ▶ Information relating to this video: - Tea Consent by Blue Seat Studios https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8 - The Vast Majority of Perpetrators Will Not Go to Jail or Prison https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system - Why do people stay in abusive relationships? https://www.gulfbend.org/poc/view_doc.php?type=doc&id=8483&cn=2 ▶AM I BEING ABUSED? https://www.rainn.org/warning-signs https://www.loveisrespect.org/is-this-abuse/ https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/ ▶I NEED HELP / SUPPORT https://www.thehotline.org/ - 24/7 calling and messages services https://psychologytoday.com/us/therapists - find a therapist in real life ▶I WANT TO HELP https://www.rainn.org/articles/your-role-preventing-sexual-assault - learn how to help https://www.loveisrespect.org/donate-to-lir/ - donate to loveisrespect
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How To Stop Being Jealous - Techniques To End Jealousy Forever
How To Stop Being Jealous - The root causes of jealousy and how to deal with them effectively. The Ultimate Life Purpose Course - Create Your Dream Career: http://www.actualized.org/life-purpose-course Leo's Top 140 Self Help Books http://www.actualized.org/books Related Videos: If you liked this video, I recommend you watch these related videos too: 1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=01Pfs3VuizM 2) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeLpvgAVtU8 3) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqLIXz0k_qM 4) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UTjcsXnxPBQ 5) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wirV265ZYSw 6) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4lef8aZnvyU
Views: 662777 Actualized.org
Today, Maury will talk to young couples whose relationships are at a breaking point due to emotional, verbal and physical abuse. Maury enlists the help of motivational speaker and founder of the 180 program, Raphael B. Johnson in an effort steer these couples in the right direction. Can he keep these couples from falling off the proverbial cliff? Don’t miss this special episode of Maury and find out!
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My Boyfriend Is Too Controlling
Commentary by: Joe Jo (Twitter: @joverdose) Bart Kwan (Twitter: @bartkwan) Geo Antoinette (Twitter: @Geo_Antoinette) Tiffany Del Real (Twitter: @real_tiff) Edited by: Devin White (Twitter: @Kidharu) Submit Questions Here: www.askthefeels.com Artwork by Nina Faelnar illustrationsbynina.com IG: http://instagram.com/illustrationsbynina FB: http://www.facebook.com/illustrationsbynina Our Other Channels: NEWS CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/JustKiddingNews FILMS CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/JustKiddingFilms BEHIND THE SCENES CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/JustKiddingParty GAMER CHANNEL: http://www.youtube.com/JustKiddingGamer MERCHANDISE: http://www.justkiddingfilms.bigcartel... WEBSITE: http://www.askthefeels.com TWITTER: http://twitter.com/askthefeels FACEBOOK: http://www.facebook.com/AskTheFeels INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/AskTheFeels
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How to Get Out of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
Please watch: "10 Early Warning Signs Your Heart Isn't Working Properly" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKs0GXrRe2M If you are looking for help with Exercise, Workout, Diet, Losing Weight, Detox and more, Checkout Our Amazon Page Here: https://www.amazon.com/shop/waysandhow --~-- http://www.waysandhow.com Subscribe to Waysandhow: https://goo.gl/RK2SbN Tips on how to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship. Many men and women in abusive relationships have trouble getting out primarily because the abuse has programmed them to be dependent on their abusers for sustenance, affirmation or support. This is what makes the abuse so sick: here's how to get out of an emotionally abusive relationship. Waysandhow. ---------------------------------------------------------- Our Social Media: Google+: https://plus.google.com/+waysandhow Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/waysandhow/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/waysandhow/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/waysandhow
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How to Deal with an Exploitative Spouse? Sadhguru
Responding to a question about exploitative relationships, Sadhguru explains that meditativeness is an important quality to bring into our lives and our families, rather than trying to fix the other person. Meditativeness fundamentally means to become in such a way that we are not the source of the problem -- wherever we are, we are a solution. **************************************** Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/how-to-deal-with-an-exploitative-spouse/ Questioner: Sadhguru, Namaskaram (Pause). Sadhguru: I didn’t say anything (Laughter). Questioner: Sadhguru, how to conduct oneself when, you know, when you have a very exploitative spouse, you know? Sadhguru: You’re talking about how to conduct him or yourself? Questioner: Myself. Sadhguru: No, actually you want to know how to fix him, right? Questioner: No, Sadhguru. Sadhguru: (Laughs) So you want him to… You want him to be conduct… continue to be an exploitative spouse, and you want to learn how to be part of that (Laughter)? Questioner: I’m unable to understand how to deal with this situation. Sadhguru: No, this is what – first you must understand – do you want to deal with him or yourself? Questioner: Myself, Sadhguru. Sadhguru: No (Laughter). Let’s be straight, come on. We want to fix him, don’t we (Laughter / Applause)? Enna maa? Hmm? (Speaks in Tamil – not transcribed) (Laughs)? So this is very important. I’m particularly talking to you. Please sit down. It’s very important that we are straight with life, do you understand? What you want is your husband fixed, but because you’re sitting in front of me you’re saying, “Sadhguru, how do I fix myself to fit into this exploitation?” (Laughter) – which is not the truth (Laughs). You want to know how to fix the man. Yes or no? Please tell me, all the ladies (Laughter). If you perceive him – we don’t know what he is – we’re not talking about your husband. I do not know what he is, but if you perceive him as exploitative, obviously you want to fix him, isn’t it? If you perceive yourself as a problematic wife, then maybe some thought about, “Maybe I want to fix myself,” will come up. When you perceive somebody as exploitative, the intention is to fix them, isn’t it? But we wouldn’t want to be straight about that because the culture doesn’t tell you… the culture tells you “Fixing your husband is not a good thing – you must fix yourself (Laughs).” So if you get a headache, go for a foot surgery – then the foot will be aching more than the head (Laughter) – kind of fixed (Laughter). At least your attention is gone. So it’s time… If we are concerned about life it’s time that we are one hundred percent straight, at least with ourselves. Maybe in the world, we don’t know what profession you have, what situations you have, we don’t know how straight you can be – I will not interfere with that, but at least (Laughs) with yourself you must be hundred percent straight – very important. Otherwise, neither yourself nor your life situations will ever get fixed, simply complaining and going on. Life will be a lifelong complaint for a whole lot of people because they don’t want to address it, they want to beat around it. So, husband-fixing program we must do (Laughter). No, we have fixed a whole lot of them, because they become meditative and suddenly their exploitative nature went away because now they’re busy with something else. So I… I don’t want to get into a personal situation right now here, but you must bring meditativeness into you and into your family. This is something we have to invest into life now. If you’re not able to fix your husband, at least you must have a wish that the next generation of husbands are not exploitative. If you’re interested in that, you must make sure your little boy that you have right now, you must fix him now with some meditation. Yes. Meditation is not about fixing him against something. It is just that meditativeness means to become in such a way that you are not the source of the problem. Wherever you are, you’re a solution, you’re not a problem. Read Full Transcript: http://isha.sadhguru.org/blog/video/how-to-deal-with-an-exploitative-spouse/ **************************************** More Videos & Blogs on Website http://www.isha.sadhguru.org Yogi, mystic and visionary, Sadhguru is a spiritual master with a difference. An arresting blend of profundity and pragmatism, his life and work serves as a reminder that yoga is a contemporary science, vitally relevant to our times. Subscribe to our channel here: http://isha.co/2ebiGKm Free Guided Meditation by Sadhguru at http://www.ishafoundation.org/Ishakriya Free Yoga Tools For Transformation at http://isha.sadhguru.org/5-min-practices/ Official Facebook Page of Sadhguru https://www.facebook.com/sadhguru Official Twitter Profile of Sadhguru https://twitter.com/SadhguruJV Download Sadhguru App 📲 http://onelink.to/sadhguru__app
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Bad Boyfriend
By Gabby | Ready to "wear it out loud?” Merch store open, SHOP NOW: http://bit.ly/storybooth-merch | Subscribe: http://bit.ly/sub2storybooth | Record your story @ https://storybooth.com or our iPhone app for a chance to get animated. Comment, like, share this story. 9th grade - Freshman year in high school - is a time for a ton of firsts, independence, free-thinking, soon to be driving, and, sometimes, flirting, dating, and maybe, first love! This is a dating story that takes quite a journey. Early in the year Gabby met a boy at a carnival, and, even though at first she didn't think of him in any romantic "boyfriend" way - she didn't even think he was all that cute at the time - they started hanging out, a lot. And, they became best friends. Eventually, after really hitting it off they started to really like each other, and then, just like that, they were boyfriend and girlfriend. Gabby had never had a boyfriend, and for the first few months it was amazing - their honeymoon phase - and they were always together and she really felt like she was in love with him. But, slowly, she started to see a different side of him, and she started to realized that he wouldn't let her do anything. He kept her from going out with her friends, wouldn't let her text someone that she knew and had been friends with for a really long time. He disrespected her, controlled her and degraded her. He was possessive. paranoid, and controlling. Yeah, this is a bad relationship story. Then he started telling her nasty and mean things, making her feel like she was bad, and worthless, and not good enough. He said mean things to her to make her feel small every single day, he was condescending and hurtful and she dealt with it day after day and year after year. Her self esteem went down and it caused her to be depressed and really sad. He had a bad temper and did not want her doing anything away from him. He did not trust her or anyone else. She deserved more, she deserved better. This was after all her first love, even if he was a bad boyfriend, a really, really bad boyfriend. And, even though she felt awful, she really didn't know what to expect, or what a normal love relationship was supposed to be like, she had never been in one. That bad boyfriend caused Gabby a ton of pain, sent her into a depression and made her feel anxious all the time. Things just kept getting worse and worse, and she just kept staying with him, kept dating him. He was a real jerk. To her it was evil, but nobody else could see what he was doing to her, he didn't hurt her physically, but emotionally he really did hurt her, and it did real damage, hurt just as much and lasted longer than if it was physical. he really hurt her; her mind, her self worth and self esteem. Even now all the awful things he said to her are still in her head, but at least now she can ask herself "who was he anyway? why did he have such power of me? He was just an awful person, and the things he said to me weren't true." Finally, thankfully, Gabby couldn't take it anymore, she built up her courage and stood up for herself and broke up with him! She broke up with her boyfriend - The Jerk! And it took her a long time to get over that bad boyfriend, and all the things he did and said to her, but finally, she met an amazing, sweet, and wonderful guy who loves her for who she is and would never say things just to hurt her and make her small. Her new boyfriend is AMAZING! He treats her the way she deserves to be treated, with respect and love. It turns out that this is actually a fantastic dating story with a genuine happy ending. Will they live happily ever after? Who knows but what we do know is that Gabby is happy! What's your story? storybooth wants to hear it! LINKS: Website: http://www.storybooth.com Instagram: @thestorybooth twitter @thestorybooth https://www.instagram.com/thestorybooth G+: https://plus.google.com/+Storybooth/v... Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thestorybooth/ Tumblr: https://storybooth.tumblr.com/ If you liked this storybooth animation and love storytime / story time kid videos, watch our themed playlist collections: Being Yourself: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTv86vY0AuCvmy5PzXAWy9vbciRaDqGH7 Love and Heartbreak: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTv86vY0AuCtnxgvVeZtfySmOpeVZw0t4 Embarrassing and Funny: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTv86vY0AuCtczLwmlI-dBOlr3ZgxFvcF Bullies and Mean People: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTv86vY0AuCuVZFrilE3WncQhw1jZTxIW Overcoming Challenges: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTv86vY0AuCuzwXs4WrQcb2kVXT_xA5Od
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Controlling husband, abusive boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, spouse. Warning signs and what to do
This video is intended to give you some insight on how to spot the subtle and subliminal efforts on the part of a husband, boyfriend, wife, or girlfriend to systematically and methodically control their significant other. What warning signs should you look for, how to prevent this controlling behavior, and what to do once you discover it.
Boyfriend Defends List Of Strict Rules For His Girlfriend Living In His House
Elizabeth says it was love at first sight when she met her boyfriend Cory three years ago. But now, she says Cory’s “rules” have become too much for her to handle. http://drphil.com Buy The 20/20 Diet: http://bit.ly/drphil2020diet Buy Life Code: http://bitly.com/LifeCodeDP Subscribe to Dr. Phil: http://bitly.com/SubscribeDrPhil LIKE us on Facebook: http://bitly.com/DrPhilFacebook Follow us on Twitter: http://bitly.com/DrPhilTwitter
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How to Stop Being a "CONTROL" Freak ❌
How to Stop Being a "CONTROL" Freak ❌ A controlling attitude is hard to notice when you are the one being controlling. Here are a few things you can do to counteract the controlling attitude. 1. Lower your expectations of others. This may sound bad at first, but if you have a controlling personality your expectations are already too high. You must learn to let others live their life and not expect them to do things your way. 2. Let It Go! It's hard to not take things personally when you are a controlling person. Understand that when others don't want to do things your way it doesn't mean they don't like you or think less of you. They are individuals with a different perspective. They may have a different way of doing things and it may turn out to be better. 3. Be Accountable. Get an honest, even tempered person to help you realise when you are controlling. Signs of a Controlling Person: 1. Are you a perfectionist? People who have perfectionist tendencies are more likely to have a controlling personality. Because of the strong desire to have perfection, you tend to extend your views onto other people. 2. Does it always have to be your way? If you always have things your way; this is a strong indicator that you may be a controlling person. 3. Do you expect other people to have the same principles and work ethics as you? A controlling person tends to have high and unrealistic expectations of others without considering the circumstances that person maybe facing. 4. Do you find yourself constantly coaching other people in their lives when your life is in disarray? Many people try to establish order in others lives to compensate for their inability to bring order to their own life. 5. Do you issue a lot of threats? A controlling person will issues threats to retain control over other people. Share this video: https://youtu.be/YbR_fFB-s0Q Follow Me Here: FACEBOOK: https://goo.gl/spcKHB... TWITTER: https://twitter.com/NubianP... INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/nubianprinc... Email: marlons1180@gmail.com -~-~~-~~~-~~-~- Please watch: "Circumcised vs Uncircumcised Dicks - Which is Better Cut or Uncut? " https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGqKQo7pekQ -~-~~-~~~-~~-~-
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Controlling Ex-Boyfriend @hodgetwins
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How to be Less Controlling - with JP Sears
Becoming Less Controlling, letting go of the Control Freak Behavior Claim Your free download of "10 Insights for Awakened Living" and "7 Ways to Be More Spiritual Than Your Friends" at http://AwakenWithJP.com/ Connect with me at: http://www.AwakenWithJP.com http://www.facebook.com/AwakenWithJP http://www.Instagram.com/AwakenWithJP http://www.twitter.com/AwakenWithJP How to be Less Controlling My opinion is that we are all control freaks! Becoming less controlling has little to do with trying to control how you're controlling and more to do with recognizing, accepting, allowing your control and connecting with your feelings under the control. I also invite you to take on the challenge of recognizing how you control in every situation you're in so you can surrender more control in order to experience more peace and connection. Subscribe to my channel for MORE! New videos every week!: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=awakenwithjp
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Pt. 1. The Impossible Connection: Loving Someone w/ Borderline Personality Disorder. See Warning
WARNING: this video was not meant to be a resource for those who have Borderline Personality Disorder(BPD), which is a very unfortunate psychological disorder. The video was created as a resource to victims of abuse, past and present, from people diagnosed with BPD. I do not believe that people with BPD are all the same, and are equally abusive. I do know that they hurt the people that they love. Some of them hurt these people very badly. This video is NOT a resource for people suffering with BPD. In fact, it will surely aggravate their condition. Although I believe I know a great deal about the disorder, I am neither a specialist nor an expert in the treatment of it. My skill set is with people who I refer to as “Self-Love Deficients” (codependents) who have Self-Love Deficit Disorder (codependency). Those who criticize my video(s) on BPD are misinformed about who I am. I neither represent people with BPD, nor do I ever try to. Rather, I am a psychotherapist who provides mental health services to people who are SLD’s (codependents) and trauma survivors. My work is about empowerment, healing and escaping abusive relationships. This is evident in my Human Magnet Syndrome book and my other video and training materials. My intention is not to malign people with BPD, but to empower and lead my clients away from their compulsion to stay in relationships with individuals who are harmful and abusive to them. My work represents people who want to heal psychological wounds and who take personal responsibility for their actions. I AM AGAINST abusive individuals who narcissistically justify their harmful behavior or blame it on the victims. If that fits with people diagnosed with BPD, or for that matter, NPD or ASPD, then I offer no apologies. Ross Rosenberg's latest book, The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap (2018) and his personal development, seminar, workshop and other services can be found at www.SelfLoveRecovery.com or www.HumanMagnetSyndrome.com. Ross Rosenberg’s work on codependency, narcissism, trauma, Self-Love Recovery™, and his "Codependency Cure™" has earned him international recognition. He owns Clinical Care Consultants, a multi-location Chicago suburb counseling center, and the Self-Love Recovery Institute. He has traveled to 30 states and twice to Europe to present his workshops. Ross's first book, “The Human Magnet Syndrome" sold over 50K copies and is published in French, Spanish and soon in Czech. His latest Human Magnet Syndrome book, a complete re-write of the first, is available on February 1st. Ross’s 7 million video views/68,000 subscribers YouTube platform has established him as global phenomenon. Ross owns Clinical Care Consultants, a counseling center located in Arlington Heights and Inverness IL. . Ross's articles at http://goo.gl/XEVxgE Dysfunctional Relationship Information.
Views: 497690 Ross Rosenberg